真人真事！这是由一名Sunway大学的女大学生在Sunway University Confessions Fb Pages写的文章，内容是关于她与一个很好男性朋友的故事。由自己的故事告诉大家，好的男生都值得被珍惜！
“I’m an ex student from sunway. I would love to share my story with my best friend X. I would try to keep it short.
X and I met in high school. We went to college together. Through out the years, I always knew that he loves me but I didn’t respond to his affections. I dated other guys while he never dated anyone.
When we were in college I started to have feelings for him, so I dropped him hints and he proposed to me. But I turned him down. Because it hit me that I didn’t love him as much, I didn’t love him as much that I could see a future with him. On my naive mind, I thought I could do “better”. As he wasn’t tall or price charming like. He was also the “good boy/dorky” type.
Since then we had a lot of arguments, I knew I hurt him, a lot. But I thought if I do not see a future with him I shouldn’t date him as we would break up eventually. Things got bad to worse we decided that we should stop talking to each other, after 7 years of being best friends. He told me that I’ll always be his best friend, and if I needed anything he would always be there for me.
Fast forward, I graduated, married a tall and handsome guy Y I met from business school. I didn’t even invite x for my wedding. And we had a daughter.
My daughter needs a surgery. And it requires a lot of money. I’m jobless. My husband doesn’t earn much from his job as a manager. And my only hope is X as I got to know that he is a very successful engineer. After 7 years of not talking to each other, With my tebal muka, I talked to him on Facebook and told him my issues and asked for a loan
He agreed to help banked in the money, and went by at the hospital to visit my daughter.
Then I treat him dinner in my house, that’s when he noticed the bruises on my arms, my neck. Asked me about it. And he weeped. That’s the first time I ever saw my best friend now a grown man shedding his tears down his cheeks.
He then stood up and gave me a squeeze. Apologizing while holding me. We just cried together.
I never felt so secure in a long time. That’s when I realized, x truly loves me. He told me to leave Y and I should report Y.
The truth is, my husband is abusive and a drunkard, he seldom comes home, he wasn’t even home that time.
How I wish I could just turn back time, just give him a chance and just allow myself to fall in love with him. My life would be perfect.
But it’s all too late now, he has his wife and his own life.
Yes I’ll be leaving Y, I even signed the divorce papers. I didn’t report him for the sake of our daughter. Even all that, it is just a horrible feeling that I missed out on a man who truly loves me.
I know my life story sounds like a drama but it is a true story.
Girls, the moral of my story is, don’t always go for the physical stuff, don’t be blinded by lust. someday you will realize that all these means nothing. Also. It doesn’t mean that good looking guys are evil. Always go for a man who loves you more than you love him. Doesn’t matter if he looks dorky or uncool.
Love is patient, love is kind, you will see all these values in him when he comes. Never settle for anyone who is hot tempered. God bless! 😉
I now can only wish and pray that he would be happy. At least. Because I know I’ll be happy for him.
Sorry for the long post. I’m just ranting and expressing how I feel as well. “