真人真事！这是由一名Sunway大学的女大学生在Sunway University Confessions Fb Pages写的文章，内容是关于她与一个很好男性朋友的故事。由自己的故事告诉大家，好的男生都值得被珍惜！
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我是sunway毕业的学生。我很想与大家分享我与我最好的朋友X的故事。而我尽量长话短说。
X与我在高中时认识，我们一起上同一所大学（Sunway University）。这么多年来，我知道他一直很爱我，但是我对他的暗示没有任何表示。我约会其他男生，而他却从来没有约过任何女生。
当我们成了大学朋友，我开始对他有感觉，所以我给他一些暗示，让他可以勇敢追求我，而他也向我求婚。不过，我却拒绝了！因为我发现我并没有很爱他，我没有爱他爱到可以看见他的未来。当时，我有个幼稚的想法，那就是：我值得更好的。因为他对我来说不够高和不够魅力charming，他甚至看起来有点太好人，对我来说就是一个傻傻Noob Noob的男生。
从那时开始，我们有很多争论。我知道我伤他伤得很深，但我觉得如果我看不见和他的未来，我就不该和他约会，说不定我们在一起也会分手。虽然我们已经是7年的好朋友, 但事情变得每况愈下，最後我们决定不再跟对方说话。他告訴我，我永远是他最好的朋友，如果我需要什么，他会永远守护着我。
一眨眼，我毕业了！我嫁给了一个很高且很帅的男生Y。我们是在工商管理的学院里认识的。我并没有邀请X来参加我的婚礼。不久之后，我和老公有了一个女儿。
我的女儿有病要动手术，需要一笔手术费。奈何我无业，而我的老公虽然身为Manager，但他赚的薪水却和职位不相称。所以我最后的希望就是X，因为我知道他现在是名很成功的工程师。7年来，我们都没有联络，我带着自己的厚脸皮，在FB尝试找他，告诉他我的问题，并要求贷款。
他答应借钱给我，并把前汇金我的银行。过了几天，他甚至到医院去探望我的女儿。
那天，我要邀请他到我家吃晚餐。他发现我的脖子和手上有瘀伤，问我到底发生了什么事。让我想不到的是，他哭了。那是我第一次看到我最好的朋友，一个大男人当着别人的面前流泪了。
然后他站起来，给了我一个大大的拥抱。他一边抱着我，一边向我道歉，最后，我们俩人哭成一团。
我已很就没感受到这种安全感。那时候我才发现，X真的很爱我。他告诉我应该要离开Y并报警Y家暴。
而事实是，我的丈夫是个脾气暴躁的人，而且他很爱喝酒，是个酒鬼。他甚至也很少回家。
我多么希望时光能够倒流，回到7年前，给X一个机会，也给自己一个机会去爱上X。如果我和X在一起，我现在的生活就是完美的。
但是，都太迟了！X现在已有一个爱他的太太和属于他自己的生活。
对，我将会离开Y，我甚至已经签了离婚协议书。但我并没有报警，因为为了保护我们的女儿。虽然可惜，但更糟的是，我错过了一个真正爱我的人，那种感觉，是很心痛的！
我知道我的故事听起来像是电影或是电视剧的情节，但它是一个真实的故事。
女孩们，我说这个故事的寓意是，不要一直去在意物质的东西，不要被自己的欲望所蒙蔽。因为有一天你会发现，这些物质的东西最后都会化为乌有。除此之外，帅的男生也不代表是邪恶的。请不要拒绝那些他爱你多过你爱他的男生，不管他长得比较不酷或傻傻的，都不应该因为外表而拒绝他。
爱是恒久忍耐，爱是仁慈。当你的他来到时，你会在他身上看到这些价值。还有，千万不要找脾气暴躁的男生，上帝保佑！
我现在只能祈祷并希望X可以开开心心。至少，我是到我会为他感到高兴。抱歉说了这么多，我只是在表达我的感受。
原文如下：
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“I’m an ex student from sunway. I would love to share my story with my best friend X. I would try to keep it short.
X and I met in high school. We went to college together. Through out the years, I always knew that he loves me but I didn’t respond to his affections. I dated other guys while he never dated anyone.
When we were in college I started to have feelings for him, so I dropped him hints and he proposed to me. But I turned him down. Because it hit me that I didn’t love him as much, I didn’t love him as much that I could see a future with him. On my naive mind, I thought I could do “better”. As he wasn’t tall or price charming like. He was also the “good boy/dorky” type.
Since then we had a lot of arguments, I knew I hurt him, a lot. But I thought if I do not see a future with him I shouldn’t date him as we would break up eventually. Things got bad to worse we decided that we should stop talking to each other, after 7 years of being best friends. He told me that I’ll always be his best friend, and if I needed anything he would always be there for me.
Fast forward, I graduated, married a tall and handsome guy Y I met from business school. I didn’t even invite x for my wedding. And we had a daughter.
My daughter needs a surgery. And it requires a lot of money. I’m jobless. My husband doesn’t earn much from his job as a manager. And my only hope is X as I got to know that he is a very successful engineer. After 7 years of not talking to each other, With my tebal muka, I talked to him on Facebook and told him my issues and asked for a loan
He agreed to help banked in the money, and went by at the hospital to visit my daughter.
Then I treat him dinner in my house, that’s when he noticed the bruises on my arms, my neck. Asked me about it. And he weeped. That’s the first time I ever saw my best friend now a grown man shedding his tears down his cheeks.
He then stood up and gave me a squeeze. Apologizing while holding me. We just cried together.
I never felt so secure in a long time. That’s when I realized, x truly loves me. He told me to leave Y and I should report Y.
The truth is, my husband is abusive and a drunkard, he seldom comes home, he wasn’t even home that time.
How I wish I could just turn back time, just give him a chance and just allow myself to fall in love with him. My life would be perfect.
But it’s all too late now, he has his wife and his own life.
Yes I’ll be leaving Y, I even signed the divorce papers. I didn’t report him for the sake of our daughter. Even all that, it is just a horrible feeling that I missed out on a man who truly loves me.
I know my life story sounds like a drama but it is a true story.
Girls, the moral of my story is, don’t always go for the physical stuff, don’t be blinded by lust. someday you will realize that all these means nothing. Also. It doesn’t mean that good looking guys are evil. Always go for a man who loves you more than you love him. Doesn’t matter if he looks dorky or uncool.
Love is patient, love is kind, you will see all these values in him when he comes. Never settle for anyone who is hot tempered. God bless! 😉
I now can only wish and pray that he would be happy. At least. Because I know I’ll be happy for him.
Sorry for the long post. I’m just ranting and expressing how I feel as well. “
